Wednesday, March 17, 2010

SISTER(S)............................................

I PROMISED TO WRITE ABOUT MY SADNESS, EVEN THOUGH I FEEL BETTER NOW, BUT I MUST KEEP THAT PROMISE.

FFF SAID SHE AND HER SISTER ALWAYS FOUGHT BUT TODAY, THEY GET ALONG. I'M THE OPPOSITE. MY ELDEST SISTER WILL ALWAYS BEAT ME AS A KID FOR REASONS SHE THOT WAS RIGHT. THIS WHOLE I BE UR SENIOR THING IS JUST SO ANNOYING. FRICTION ALWAYS, THUS WE CAN'T GET ALONG.I DOUBT IT.
OF MY THREE SISTER'S, NONE HAS A GOOD DEFINITION OF ME.

MY YOUNGER SISTER, THINKS I'M WEIRD CUZ I DON'T DO THE USUAL STUFF DEY ALL DO.

MY IMMEDIATE ELDER SISTER CALLS ME ANNOYING, CUZ SHE FORGOT MY MUM"S BIRTH DATE AND I FORGOT TO CALL HER TO REMIND HER. REASON BEING THAT, I SO MUCH HAD IT IN MIND TO CALL MUMSIE ON THAT DAY, BUT I WOKE UP WITH A MIND BLOWING TOOTHACHE AND MENSTRUAL CRAMP.BESIDES THE BIRTHDAY THINGY,DATS HOW SHE VIEWS ME.

MY ELDEST SISTER, THINKS I'M TOO DUMB TO FUNCTION AS AN INDIVIDUAL. LIKE SHE'S THE PERFECT ONE AND YOU JUST HAVE TO ADOPT HER WAYS. AND THATS WHERE WE ALWAYS HAVE PROBLEMS. NOT THAT I TALK BACK AT HER BUT CUZ I'M MUTE WHEN SHE STARTS HER NAGGING AND U KNOW WOT THEY SAY ABOUT SILENCE.

SO ALTOGETHER, NOTHING I DO EVER GOES DOWN WELL WITH HER.

SIS: PLS MAKE QUAKER OAT FOR THE KIDS.
OK, I GO TO THE KITCHEN AND DO DAT, I MEAN WHO CAN'T MAKE OATS XCEPT ME?????
SIS: THIS IS TOO HARD FOR THE KIDS. THATS NOT THE WAY I MAKE IT.
ME: SILENCE ALL THE WAY.

I GO OUT WITH ARROGANCE OR ANYONE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX, SHE XPECTS ME TO COME BACK WITH A HAMPER. MHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.
I GET A CALL FROM GUY, SHE HAS SOMETHING NOT NICE TO SAY ABT IT. THE ONE THAT PISSED ME OFF ONE DAY WAS WHEN I GOT A CALL FROM THIS GUY I USED TO KNOW WHO ASKED ME TO HELP CHECK ON A HOUSE HE WAS BUILDING AND I WAS JUST TELLING HIM WHAT I SAW AND HE WENT ON TO TELL ME ABT ANODA HOUSE IN LAGOS TOO. AND I ASKED IF I COULD GET A ROOM IN THE HOUSE. AND HE SAID I HAVE TO AGREE TO HIS PROPOSAL AND AS USUAL I JOKED ABOUT IT AND THE NEXT THING I HEARD WAS, "LEAVE THESE GUYS WITH THEIR HIV". WHAT WAS THAT???? IF IT BE A JOKE, IT WASN'T ONE BIT FUNNY.

ON THE DAY OF THAT POST,I HAD WOKEN UP AS USUAL AND GETTING THE KIDS READY FOR SCHOOL IN XCRUTIATING PAIN.( THAT WAS BEFORE THE TOOTH XTRACTION)AND I WAS REALLY NOT IN THE MOOD FOR TALKS. SHE WALKS INTO THE KITCHEN AND BEGAN HER USUAL "WHAT R U DOIN"????? I WAS NOT IN THE MOOD FOR HER..... U'RE NOT FUNCTIONAL TALKS AND I JUST GAVE WAY AND ASKED HER TO JUST DO WATEVER IT WAS THAT HAS TO BE DONE.

SIS: I DON'T BLAME YOU. IT'S ALL BECUZ U R STAYING IN MY HOUSE.

AT THIS POINT, MY HEART BROKE. I WANTED TO CRY, BUT I COULDN'T. WOTS ALL THAT??????? NA WA OOOOOOO. I JUST TOOK A SHOWER, AND LEFT THE HOUSE........ AND GUESS WHO THE DEVIL BROUGHT BY..................................

"ARROGANCE". YEAH HIM............. AND I JUST LET HIM WHISK ME AWAY........ HE WOULD'T UTTER A WORD TO ME AND I JUST SAT IN THE CAR DUMB TILL A CALL FROM MY GOD SISTER WHOM I TALKED TO ABOUT ALL THE ISSUES WITH MY SISTER, AND AS USUAL.................. I CRIEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD MY HEART OUT.
ARROGANCE LET ME CRY WITHOUT A WORD. AND AFTER ALL THE TEARS WERE GONE, AND I HAD SLEPT FOR SOMETIME, HE BEGAN TO SING TO ME ABT NOT GIVING IN TO THE SADNESS THAT CLOUDED MY MIND. HE TOOK ME TO PRESIDENTIAL VILLA, KNOWING I LOVE SUCH AN ENVIRONMENT... THOUGH HE WENT TO SEE OUR ACTING PRESIDENTS WIFE.

OK, I DIDN'T SAY IT......... ARROGANCE IS INTO POLITICS O. I JUST LED MYSELF THRU THE BEAUTIFUL VILLA ON A LONG WALK AND OFF WE WENT HOME AND DOT DOT DOT..............................(DON'T ASK).

ARROGANCE HAS BEEN SO NICE AND ANNOYINGLY SWEET, BUT TODAY WAS BAD. HAVEN'T SEEN HIM ALL WEEK AND TODAY HE CAME TO SEE ME BUT I DIN'T CUZ MY SISTER SPENT MY WHOLE DAY IN THE MARKET. HE EVEN OFFERED TO COME AND PICK US UP WHEN WE WERE DONE BUT MY UNCLE CAME FIRST SO I TOLD HIM NOT TO BORDER. NOW, HE AINT TALKING TO ME AND I'M WORRIED.
WHY????? TRUTH IS HE'LL STILL BE HERE 2MORO SO WTF?????????????

U ALL HAVE A FAB WEEKEND AND I PROMISE NEVER TO BE SAD ANYMORE.......

19 comments:

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Myne Whitman said...

Relationships with sisters can be such tricky matters. It is almost certain that you guys will patch things up as you get older so don't be too bitter at her.

Have a nice weekend dear.

..Moyo said...

:(
Are we from the same life or something? Well yes obviously. But I mean my sisters think that of me too! My younger ones think I'm weird and just too different. My older sister - *sigh*
Glad you feel better anyway.
These things happen, you just do your own thing because you know in your heart that you would be a great person by believing in what you believe abi?

Sugarking said...

Rubbish bad bele sister. My dear she just jealous cos ur hotter jare!

LovePaprika said...

this is my first time here... My heart goes out to u darl... Pls stick to your promise... have u tried sitting ur sisters down and talking to them... u know life is short right?

I think u should express ur feelings to them for a start and then let life go on mehn...

beautiful said...

awwwwww.....pele. m the last of 6 children and they sooooo ANNOY me but wat can i do bout it? nothing *sigh*

The Girl with the Red Hair said...

pele.
Am a first born, but my immediate sister and i are cat and dog.
but this yo sisters own is serious.Leaving with relative is stressful, especially if you don't get along

rayo said...

sorry about ur troubles:(

Ebony~!* said...

i feel u....siblingsssssss arrrghhhhh. thank God for distance though lol in my case

Nutty Jennifer said...

Dont have sisters...and I'm grateful, becos I get the feeling if I have a younger sister, I'll be doing exactly how your sister is doing (I'm jealous that's why)...its sibling rivary.

It doesnt mean she doesnt love you, she does...but her way of showing it is just not normal...If she was indifferent towards you, then you know she doesnt have sisterly affections. You too try and stop being 'mute'...they get the feeling that you are indirectly calling them 'stupid' by ur silence, and really how wud they know they hurt you if u dont say so once in a while...they cant stop something they dont know is bad na...or dont you think so..

Silence is golden but sometimes speak your mind too.

Nogo Blogs said...

Sorry :( You're right the joke wasn't funny. First time here so I don't know the background but please cheer up. Lots of Blogger <3 xx

佩怡 said...

I do like ur article~!!! ........................................

24yearOldTeEnAgeR said...

e-hugs?

doll said...

wow.....dont know what to say..maybe you should have a heart to heart talk with your sister...i am the only daughter of my parents and i wish so badly that i had a sister......

Maybe she feels the same way about you...that you are uncaring, cold, etc...so try talking to her about your feelings

Also try being extra nice and see how that plays out like offer to do shopping for her, offer to cook, offer to drop the kids, call her at work to find out how she is doing, tell her she looks nice when she dresses up, seek for her opinion on one on two matters

just make the effort aight?

doll said...

P.S why do you type in caps...kinda makes reading strainous

sosexy said...

I cant begin to imagine what you're going through.Hope you're feeling better?Take care.First time here,I like it .

Fragilelooks said...

just wana say a BIG THANK U to u all for the kind words and also sharing ur views. love u with all me hart. AND I STILL LOVE MY SISTER(S) DESPITE ALL MISUNDERSTANDINGS.

ZeZe said...

I knw siblings can be so annoying but u dont get to choose ur family...my advise is not to hold it in.let her knw exactly how u feel so it can stop eating you inside..love,peace and happiness..xoxo

Nutty J. said...

sorry for doing this here

I dont know what happened to my blog..if u like u can unfollow the one u have and follow this one...its the same, but I see it no longer appears anywhere...

okay....this sud be my 2nd to last stop..phew!!!