Friday, August 27, 2010

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WHAT CAN I DO TO ALL THESE CHINESE SPEAKING "THINGS" ON MY BLOG????? REALLY I AM FED UP.

OKAY, MY PEOPLE OF GOD, HOW UNA DEY SINCE I NEVER SHOW FACE FOR THIS SIDE????
WORK NO BE WINCH O, BUT ........................(I NO DEY COMPLAIN)....LOL.

M KOWA IHE OMA CHUKWU N'ÉMERE M(IF I BEGIN TALK WETIN GOD DEY DO FOR ME), MHHHHHH.
DESPITE, MY SHORTCOMINGS, GOD HAS BEEN SURPRISING ME LEFT, RIGHT AND CENTRE.
*SINGING* KELERE M CHIM O, NWANNE M KELERE M CHI M O NA CHI M EMELA.

FOLLOWING MY ANSWER TO BOBO'S QUESTION (*NO*), WE FELL INTO THIS CONVO:

ME: U KNOW, I WANA GO BACK TO SCHOOL, ATTAIN A CERTAIN HEIGHT IN MY CARREER, ATLEAST HAVE SOMETHING TO MY NAME. AND I KNOW YOU WANT TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL ALSO, BUT WITH MARRIAGE, COMES KIDS. DO U THINK IT WILL STILL BE PRIORITY WHEN THE KIDS STARTS COMING??

BOBO: AM I THE ONE HAVING THE CHILDREN? I'L STILL GO TO SCHOOL BLA BLA BLA BLA.

AT THIS POINT MY LOVELY PEOPLE, IT JUST OCCURED TO ME THAT, NOT ONLY AM I YET TO BE 24, I HAVEN'T EVEN EXPLORED LIFE'S OPTIONS KA OFO ZIA TYING MYSELF DOWN FOREVER.
WITH THAT, I STOOD TO MY *NO* AND JEJELY LET GO THE RELATIONSHIP AT ONCE CUZ THIS BROS WANTS TO BE MARRIED THIS YEAR, BY FIRE BY FORCE.

SO I'M BACK TO BEING SINGLE. AND SINGLER CUZ A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP NOW, WILL ONLY BE A DISTRACTION TO THE PICTURE INFRONT OF ME.




HAPPY WEEKEND YÁLL.

10 comments:

ZeL said...

All the best :)

I pray u made the right decision.

etoile Oye said...

Every one has their path in life. Did you let the guy go only cos of Bobo's comment or what she will be doing with her life?

Myne Whitman said...

I also hope your decision is the right one. All the best in your plans.

2cute4u said...

I don't know if I should give you a knock on the head or a pat on the back.. But either way..
I'm here for you..
But chere godi nu kam juma gi..
Onwetu nut puru gi n'isi?
I kpere ekpere?

Nice Anon said...

LOL@ 2cute4u.
The babe si odighi ready ilu di ugbua.. the thing is.. mgbe igadizi ready oweghi di iga ahu.

I hope you made the right choice o!

Original Mgbeke said...

I like your courage, many others might have stuck it out because they aren't sure what the 'market' is looking like. But you did it for you...I like that!

Fragilelooks said...

2cute: babe onweghi nut dapuru m n'isi o.
i'm certain i did the right thing o and for my own sanity. they paint this picture that cloud your normal sense of judgement and then u just find urself in a web that mite take forever to dis-entangle. i have seen pple who have done it with regrets written over their confused faces. i don't wana tow that line.

Tisha said...

Did you love him at all?

I guess if you had loved him 'any' you would be able to see a future where you spend life with him.

Did you trust him any?

Fragilelooks said...

TISHA DEAR: YES I LOVED HIM. BUT I GUESS LOVE WASN'T JUST ENOF.

Rita said...

What matters is that you are making a decision by yourself (for yourself) and hopefully it is the right one.

Thank God for all the great things He is doing in your life. God's love is universal and is not dependent on what we do (or do not do). Thank God He is God.