Sunday, March 25, 2012

GOOD/NICE GIRL DON'T EXIST NO MORE

Officially, i kiss being LIL MISS GOOD/NICE GIRL, away and turning on the no-nonsense Radar on full blast. Thats the much i can take and the height of it all. If after reading this post, u choose to judge me, well, good for you..... I am the kinda girl, who will go an extra mile to make sure i give the best of me (be it time or money) to someone just to put a smile on their faces. Most times, however inconveniencing it may be, i still do it while consoling myself that its not me who has put in that capacity in me but GOD. I met a girl in my church sometime last year, and my fist encounter with her wasn't so pleasant. She asked me for a certain amount of money and i told her i don't have the said amount but i will see how i can help. And there went my peace, as this girl called the battery life out of my cell as though i was owing her and that if i don't want to give her the money, i should just tell her.#seeattitude#. Finally when i met her in church again, i cautioned her about the calls and gave her at least 75% of the said sum and told her that was all i have. A week later, she started with calls again asking for the balance of the money.... like WTF???? 2012, with all the pressures that it has presented me with, both from work and with my finances being stretched, i have been working long extra hours to score extra bucks to keep body and soul together. Not complaining cuz the Grace of God has been sufficient. This same girl,came asking me if she could stay with me for a while (since late 2011)till she gets her own place.. So i inquired about where she was before, and she gave me the story of how she had problems with her sister where she was living and her sister asked her to move out et all. Why won't you have problems with your attitide??? So i asked her how she intends to get a place and pay for it when she has no job??? Abuja with the crazy cost of accomodation.... I explained to her and gave her reasons why she can't stay with me. 1. My younger sister lives with me 2.My house is like a transit INN for family members passing by. 3. She doesn't have a job and keeping her means carrying her cost. If you think this is not good enough reason, then I DUNNO...... With all these, she still wont stop with all the calls and messages, plaguing my cell and also running my battery dead. A few weeks ago, while i was in a workshop in Niger state, she started with the calls and i sent her a message, that i'm away AND IF THERE'S A PROBLEM SHE SHLD SEND ME A TEXT RATHER THAN THE CALLS. And she replied me saying "SHE KNOWS I'M IN ABUJA", thereby calling me a liar to my face. The height of it all was last night, by midnight when the same girl turns up at my door, banging and flashing torchlight, playing songs on her phone and throwing things at me in my own room, as i was struggling to sleep with the heat. The annoying thing about it all was, this girl was in church cuz of the outreach meeting we had and never said she was coming to my place. Secondly, we left church by 8:30pm, so between the hours of 8:30 - 12am, where was she? I don't know whether to call her Psychotic or Possessed, but trust me, her action earned a hot slap today... that was a total disrespect of privacy......

11 comments:

SAMUEL EKUNDAYO said...

Huh? She is either possessed or desperate. COme to think of it, maybe she likes you... is she gay? lol #pardonmynonsense.

What whats wrong with her? I think you should not allow such to move in with you o. How did she even know your place?

- LDP

doll said...

she sounds like a freak. bettter cut her off completely

Happy new year btw. dont think i have read anything from you this year

Ema Leecious said...

I don't blame you for slapping her, seriously.
She's a pest and should be treated as such. Please, don't allow her stay in you house at all, because she will turn herself into the owner.

How did she get your address?

'Lara said...

This one is demented, nothing else to it...you even tried, stomaching all that nonsense...when she is not feeding you.

Fragilelooks said...

LDP:lol @ gay. abeg, i love my BF, girls no follow for option.

She got to know my place cuz i hosted my Choir/Cell members in one of ou meetings and this same girl just picked things from my fridge and stuffed her bag. mschewwww.

funny enof, i complained in church but no one could undestand my plight.

Myne Whitman said...

I support the others, please free yourself.

~Sirius~ said...

Waaaaat?!

You are nice o. That's why its really hard for me to help people because most times they take you for granted and become ungrateful.

The slap wasn't enough if you ask me.

HoneyDame said...

Welldone on your self restraint, I cant say U could have exercised as much!

Enkay said...

Honestly? You are way too nice.
There are boundaries and Madam Freak should know she has crossed the line. Haba!

thedivainme said...

I disagree, they do exist, in they they thrive years long ago. But at the current society setting i just its just a handful of them left.

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Toinlicious said...

Oh, you really are nice. Way nice. Too darn nice! what nonsense. She's probably taking you for granted. There's a saying in yoruba that "omo yen nice, apa lon jebe"

Cut her off! #shikena

1st time here and following. So biko, i need 100k lol #ikid