Saturday, July 7, 2012

MEN DO NOT HELP WOMEN

I'm Home Sick........... like wanna be with my Family like right now.... *wipes tears*. Life in the city is sweet, but there is no place like home..... :(.............. but the Grace of God has been sufficient for me especially in these days on heigthened insecurity in Abj.

I've been somewhat besides myself with worry . . . . . . which i find rather disgusting....
My rent is due next month, and i have to cough out 400 000..... plus other pressing personal needs....

NOTHING GOES FOR NOTHING................ MEN DO NOT HELP WOMEN

So i go to see someone to give me a Reference Letter and somewhat got stuck as i had to help with some of his work activities for the day. I stayed cuz i really had nothing else to do that day, and he even offered to drop me @ home.

On reaching my gate, the man asked that i kiss him,and i'm like Say What?????? He said, afterall i deserve it.... Don't I??? Besides, the car is tinted and no one can see you........

Anger welled up in me immediately........... becuz you bought me Lunch or the Reference you are yet to give me, or becuz you dropped me @ home???? How stupid men really are??

7 comments:

Kenyansista said...

Cast your cares to Him for He cares for you ad everything that concerns you. :-)
And that man, shame on him!!

kimqhc said...

lwkmdh!pls am not laffn at ur predicament o! Thank God say u see person wey go gv u ref leta. I stay in abuja and i undastand ur trepidation as per ur rent. But honestly,i know who r nice 2 girls and d end up being calld mugu and d guy didnt ask 4 sexual favors!

Fragilelooks said...

@kenyansista: thanks a lot. sometimes we get overwhelmed by our problems but we shld really stay focused on the promises of God.

@kimqhe: why can't i meet such pple...... :D....... lol. they do not exist........ thanks for stopping by..........

@adebsrk said...

People's action to others is a reaction. I'm not placing the whole blame on you but something about your approach, probably the way you made yourself comfortable around him, might have given him the balls to try such. Next time, tie a scarf and give a guy a Bible.

'Lara said...

Some men sha, na so them dey catch the one wey go hook them for neck.

It is well, but all these una abuja rent, no be small money oh. God will see you through.

SAMUEL EKUNDAYO said...

Dont generalise oh!
That man has his own way of doing things ni o. So did you kiss him? lol

God will supply all your needs according to His riches in Jesus' name. Keep staying positive. He will see you through.

- LDP

CherryWine said...

Nooonnnnsennnse!!!!! All these useless men....God is watching them in 3D. All of our help comes from the Lord. So don't even worry. You will not compromise your standards before God sends help. You should have boxed his stupid lips that he was bringing for him. Kiss fire! Check out my blogs! Cheerio!!